每週金句-No.021 心量寬大之人,不言令人難堪之語。智慧圓熟之士,必留他人後退之路。

心量寬大之人,不言令人難堪之語。智慧圓熟之士,必留他人後退之路。

  處己何妨真面目,待人總要大肚皮。寬容是一種將心比心,自他相換的修行,願意替對方著想,將一顆慈心共情眾生,言行應對便如春風化雨,必不使人尷尬無措;智慧圓熟之士,處於任何環境,能保持一顆鎮定的心,清楚地瞭解自己,亦清楚地瞭解別人,懂得給別人留退路,亦就是給自己留後路的道理。

  A magnanimous person does not say things causing embarrassment for others. A wise and well-rounded person does not force others into a corner without giving them room to back down.