每週金句-No.143 人之通病,皆是自己不肯認錯,致使多鬱多怒;若能謙恭有禮,足可心平氣和。

人之通病,皆是自己不肯認錯,致使多鬱多怒;若能謙恭有禮,足可心平氣和。

 每當遇上不順已心、不遂已意的事情時,我們通常都不會先往自己身上找答案,更不可能承認自己有錯,非得到走投無路時,才被迫面對,此時,或是限於困境,鬱悶難解,或是推諉不成,惱羞成怒,對於了結事端,毫無助益。若能即早向內反省,低頭受過,誠心懺悔,行事謙恭,待人依禮,則就算是在險境之內,也能讓自己身心平和,避免過上更錯,也能儘早出脫考關,圓滿一樁因果。

  The common problem with people is that they are not willing to admit their faults, resulting in a lot of depression and anger. If they can be humble and courteous, they will be able to have peace of mind.